CONFIDENCE

I've been putting off writing this one. Not because I didn't know what to say, but because I wanted the first thing I put in this space to actually mean something, not just sound good. So I'm starting with the thing this whole brand was built on: confidence.

I don't think confidence is something we find entirely on our own. We build it through connection, experience and, more often than not, the moments that test us. During some of the hardest periods of my life, hearing other women speak honestly about what they had been through gave me something to hold onto. There is real power in that kind of honesty because it reminds us that whatever we might be navigating, we are rarely the only ones who have been there.

I created Canadian Huntress to help women feel comfortable, capable and confident in their everyday lives. We brought together the things we loved in a way that felt authentic to us, and that idea of quiet confidence has stayed at the heart of the brand ever since.

I've also always believed that what we wear affects how we carry ourselves. Clothing can empower us, cocoon us and give us a layer of protection from the world when we need one. I don't mean that in some profound fashion sense either. Sometimes putting on something that makes you feel good is enough to make you stand a little taller, leave the house when you don't particularly feel like it, or simply feel like yourself again.

WHAT CONFIDENCE ACTUALLY MEANS

I used to think confidence meant feeling capable and having all the answers. I don't anymore. The older I get, the more I think real confidence is much quieter than that. It's resilience, self-trust and the ability to still recognize yourself when life around you changes.

There have been periods in my life when so much felt completely beyond my control, and those experiences changed the way I understood confidence. I realized how closely the way we look can be tied to the way we feel. When everything around you feels unfamiliar, holding onto the pieces of yourself that still feel familiar can become surprisingly important. Sometimes that really is as simple as getting dressed, putting yourself together and getting on with the day.

Building Canadian Huntress taught me another side of confidence entirely: trusting my own instincts. When I started this brand in 2019, I had plenty of self-doubt and a healthy dose of imposter syndrome. I questioned whether I belonged, whether my ideas were good enough and whether I had any business creating something of my own in the first place.

Thankfully, I did it anyway.

WHEN INSTINCT BECAME EVIDENCE

The truth is, trusting my instincts was being tested almost from the moment Canadian Huntress began.

I was relatively new to hunting when I started the company, and for a while that felt like enough to make me question whether I'd earned the right to build a business around something I loved. Never mind that Canadian Huntress wasn't my first business. I was new to that world, and in some corners of it, that seemed to matter more than anything I had actually accomplished before I arrived.

I spent a long stretch feeling like I had to prove I belonged. Not because of any one thing, but because there were things I kept noticing and couldn't quite shake. So I did what I've always done when something doesn't sit right: I started paying closer attention, and I started keeping records.

Over time, I learned to pay attention to the details.

Most people would never have noticed it, and I think that's partly why it bothered me as much as it did. From the outside, everything could look perfectly ordinary. But when you've built a brand yourself, you know it intimately. You know the words you've used, the ideas you've developed, the way you've positioned it and the digital footprint you've spent years creating.

I started paying attention to things much deeper than what someone scrolling social media would ever see. And after sitting with it for long enough, I stopped questioning whether I should be documenting what I was seeing. So that's what I did.

Screenshots, dates, archived webpages and the Wayback Machine became part of a record that allowed me to go back and see what existed, when it appeared and how things changed over time. It turns out that keeping good records is considerably more useful than relying on memory. By then, Canadian Huntress wasn't simply an idea I'd had. It was a business I had spent years building, and the name was something I had taken the time and expense to formally protect. Canadian Huntress became a federally registered trademark, which meant there eventually came a point when informal requests weren't enough.

I had spent a long time being told, in one way or another, to ignore it, rise above it or stop giving it my attention.

Eventually, I decided there was a better option........I took it to court.

There is nothing particularly glamorous about litigation. It takes time, money and an enormous amount of patience. Once lawyers and court filings become involved, opinions don't matter nearly as much as documents, dates and evidence do.

And while I'm here, I'd like to clear up a rumour.

A counterclaim was filed against me as part of that process. Under the settlement, neither party paid damages to the other, and each party was responsible for their own legal fees and costs. The matter concluded through the legal process, and Canadian Huntress remained exactly what I had spent years building and protecting: mine.

I'm deliberately not turning this into a play-by-play of a legal dispute because that isn't the point of telling it here. The point is what happened to the woman who once wondered whether she even belonged in business when she was eventually required to stand behind the business she had created.

She did.

And I think that's when I finally understood the difference between appearing confident and actually being confident.

Real confidence wasn't making the loudest statement or convincing everyone else that I was right. It was knowing what I had built, keeping the evidence, getting proper advice and being prepared to stand behind it when it mattered.

That experience changed the way I do business. I pay attention. I document things. I protect what I've created. I trust my instincts much sooner than I once did, but I've also learned that instinct is strongest when you're willing to back it up with facts.

WHERE THAT LEAVES ME NOW

I've learned that I don't need to follow every trend simply because everyone else is doing it. I don't need to become louder to be noticed, and I certainly don't need to change who I am or what I created to earn a place in an industry where I've already done the work to build one.

Canadian Huntress is entering a different chapter now. I'm much more interested in doing things well than doing everything. Fewer pieces, better choices, thoughtful details, beautiful fabrics and understated branding. Clothing doesn't need to scream for attention to make the woman wearing it feel good.

Maybe that's the best reflection of how my idea of confidence has changed?

Today, confidence means knowing who I am, knowing what I've built and trusting myself enough to decide what comes next. It means understanding that you can evolve without abandoning where you came from, and that changing direction doesn't erase everything it took to get there.

Most of all, I've stopped wondering whether I belong. I spent too many years building something of my own to worry about whether I fit into someone else's version of this industry.

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Until next time, Danes